You can’t categorize them, really. There may be cultural biases one way or another but each individual is just that – an individual.

My first girlfriend in high school was a dumb blonde. She let me grope her and that’s what I wanted. She had no clue about the future, no clue about making grades in school, probably figured she’d just become a nightclub dancer like her mom, although she was not bothering to learn how to dance. I headed off to college and forgot about her, but managed to find out through the grapevine that she got pregnant by lots of guys and had like six kids. Phew…I’m glad I was scared of getting a girl pregnant and avoided the risk.

In college, I dated only two women who would qualify as “fully American”. One was the skinniest thing I ever dated up to that point, one was on the round side – like the wife shot the other guy posted. 20 over, probably. The skinny one was judgmental and withheld sex to gain other favors. The rounder one was more accommodating and was more than enthusiastic about exploring sex with me. She was the first women to go down on me. I dated also a native Israeli. Small and flat-chested, not at all an American style “Jewish American Princess”, she was the first women I knew who really wanted to get better at sex, instead of simply assuming she did it right. Then a Polish girl – I call her “girl” due to emotional immaturity. She, more than any other I’d met before, expected the guy to “present her” in all her glory to the world. My purpose was somehow to make her a queen. Also in college, I had a bit of a fling with a woman from China…she had very large breasts and carried some extra weight, so I never got the stereotype that Asian women are skinny and flat-chested.

After college, I dated mostly skinny American women, basically outdoor types. I got to knowing that the ones who wore a lot of make-up were more likely to behave as if they were entitled. But, by the mid-20s, they’re over that whole “withhold sex for favors” nonsense…it just didn’t happen.

They’re different in their foreign lands. While visiting Japan, I had a weekend with an admin assistant who worked for the same company I did. I was surprised that a Japanese woman would have sex with an American, I thought they were pretty strict about that. Turned out she had been born in Japan, moved to Canada at 5, grew into a sexually curious and somewhat active teenager, and the parents moved back to Japan when she was 16. She did not “get” the Japanese dating customs, so she took advantage of American visitors when she felt it was reasonable.

In China, I never made progress…got lots of “offers” from obvious prostitutes, but pretty much, Chinese women get their pick of Chinese men, and the only time a Chinese woman will look at an American man is if he’s going to marry her on the spot and take her to the US and spend millions on her. She can wait for a rich dude because there are very few of her – more rich American men than Chinese girls exist, because of China’s predisposition to abort female babies.

While living in the midwest, I had one relationship with a woman from Cambodia. Messed up in the head to the max. She’d worked on railroad crews in Cambodia. She’d gotten married in Cambodia to an American guy just to get the hell out of Cambodia. The guy was a left-leaning do-gooder and didn’t really like her, he just felt like a better human for having done it. They could not divorce or she’d have to “go home”. So, she lived a sexless, loveless marriage. We got along OK, did some projects, and she ventured to ask if she could stay the night with me. She was almost 40, and still a virgin. Boy, was that weird. A bit of forward movement, then she got scared off, then she got curious again. She was more nervous than the first woman I had sex with back in college. She did seem to get used to sex and seemed to like it. Danged skinny one, she was.

Probably the most entitled behavior I have ever encountered, though was a woman from Hong Kong. Somehow she had it in her head that Asian women were held up on a pedestal by American men. We met at a night club, she offered to come home with me, we had a wild night. Next morning, she started listing what I had to do in order to be worthy of another night like that. I explained that what I did to deserve a night like that was to please her all night long, and I had just done that. She explained that “no woman likes sex” and it didn’t work that way. I said no thanks, then, I needed a woman who appreciated being with me.

So…entitled? Skinny/fat? I’ve seen any of the above in American and foreign women. Good sex/bad sex from either.

I’m glad I’m out of that game, though…happily married for almost 20 years. She’s more or less American. French-born, became a citizen as a child, remembers very little French.